Do You Like It When Mistress Spanks You?

When was the last time you were spanked by a woman? Did that slap on your ass, the one that made the skin red, also make your cock hard? Is it that you know you are a bad subbie and you deserve it? Or is spanking sexy and sensual to you? Spanking can be punishment from your Mistress, but it can also be a real turn-on. Anyone without a spanking fetish isn’t going to understood something like this. But if you do, then you know how incredibly erotic it can be. Have you ever had an erotic spanking? Has a Mistress ever spanked you?

Spanking is erotic, but I know at least one of you is surprised I said that. The question is, does the fact that anyone is aroused by being spanked shocks you? Or does it surprise you that you are not alone in loving it? Either way, spanking is a very popular fetish in the Dom/sub community and not at all what many think it is. In fact, while this fetish can be about punishment, it’s often just as frequently about control, or just erotic touching.

What Is a Spanking Fetish?

If you love to be spanked, either as a discipline or just as part of a sensual role-play, then you are very likely to be one of a large community of men who have a spanking fetish. While this fetish can go either way, you know your Mistress isn’t going to let you spank her (unless you catch us in the right mood).  But we will happily spank you. Not just because we want to punish you or love inflicting pain. Rather because you love it, too.  And that is the part that people often misunderstand about this fetish.

For example, many love to be spanked over their Mistress’ knee and told they are bad, as if it is a punishment, except that it is all part of the fetish and fantasy. Our Mistresses never force.  Furthermore, when they are taking part in a session with a spanking fetishist, they are enjoying it as much as the fetishist. This is not something that is “bad” in the opinion of someone who loves spankings. It is, instead, just as sensual as a massage and as erotic as a woman doing a striptease in front of them, or engaging in some mutual masturbation.

For others who love this fetish, the humiliation is the excitement. A public spanking or one in front of a group of other Mistresses, or a wife who cuckolds them, can be incredibly humiliating, even just in fantasy. Can you imagine receiving a spanking in front of a group of hot girls or by your secretary at the office? Very humiliating and erotic! All these are different aspects of the spanking fetish.

 Spanked By a Mistress – You Love It – But With What?

The other very important part of the fetish for our spanking-loving clients, is the implement they are spanked with! The first option is always an open hand. Your Mistress may use her bare hands. Or slip on a pair of sexy black silk or leather gloves and then spank you. This requires no toys or pre-planning, but instead only for her to instruct you to present yourself and enjoy the session.

Other times, the spanking fetishist may be more turned-on by a spanking with some kind of instrument. Paddles are a popular choice. Choose your paddle – made of leather or wood, sometimes even covered in a rough or furry fabric to change the texture of the paddle.  And the way it feels when it slaps your buttocks. For the more extreme spankees, there are cat o’ nine tails and other flogging devices.  There is a plethora of spanking whips.

Not to mention, we’ve also used a cane or stick when in the right mood! We can use any of these not just on your ass, but on a variety of places that might be excited to receive a spanking. We can spank you on your thighs, legs, chest, or back.  And, of course, on your cock and balls, as well, for you CBT lovers! If you have a specific location that craves spanking – just tell your Mistress.  She might spank you there or avoid it all together, just to hear you beg!

If you want to share your spanking fetish with any of our Mistresses, do a fantasy role play or participate in spanking play over the phone – contact our Mistresses at Vox Erotic! Call today and explore your desires with us.