How To Tell Your Phone Sex Artist What You Really Want

by Ms Tia of Vox Erotic

For some aficionados, telling your phone sex artist what you really want is a fairly easy thing to do.  But for those of you who are new to phone sex, or contemplating making your first phone sex call, this information will come in very handy.

First of all, there has to be a reason you have decided to try phone sex. Maybe your girlfriend or wife isn’t quite doing it for you.  Maybe you have a very “kinky” fantasy you’ve always considered, but wouldn’t dare to try in real life.  Or maybe you love the thought of jacking off while listening to an erotic, sexy voice tell you all those nasty things you keep only in your mind. Whatever the reason is, it’s best for you to be honest about it.

When you first pick up the phone, you will naturally need to take care of the billing and business end of the call right away. After that, your time is yours and you should be aware that the more you reveal about your fantasy or kink, the better your call is going to be. Never say to your phone sex artist, “anything is fine.” Not only will you make her job harder, but chances are you are not going to get what you wanted. So, here are some hard and fast rules for getting what you want from your phone sex experience:

Five Steps For a Perfect Phone Sex Call

• Communicate: This means talk. Tell her why you called. Did you call because you saw her picture and just couldn’t resist? Did you hear her voice and decide she was the sexiest thing alive? Was it her written biography? What is your main reason for calling? Be sure to tell her.
• Be honest: Be as honest and straightforward as you can be about your fantasy. You don’t have to write a script, just tell her what was on your mind when you decided to make the call. Details are good, but if you don’t want to, or can’t go into a lot of detail, that’s fine. Your phone sex artist should be asking questions anyway.
• Phone Sex Kryptonite: This is probably the most important thing to tell your phone sex artist and the one thing most men forget to include. Your kryptonite. Yes, that’s right Superman, your kryptonite. What is it that makes you sexually weak in the knees? What is it that will make you swoon? What is it that you think of at that critical moment when you are alone and whacking off, right before you explode? Whatever it is, tell her.

No Judgement Zone

• Don’t Worry: Never worry about how kinky or perverted you might feel your fantasy is. I guarantee you that any phone sex artist out there has heard many different fantasies and perversions, so yours will not shock her or repulse her in any way. She is not your mother or your girlfriend or your wife. She can, however, pretend to be any of those in your fantasy.  But without judging you, of course. What a great bonus, right?
• Don’t Be Afraid to Speak Up: Last but not least if your phone sex artist at any time goes in a direction you are not comfortable with, tell her. Be honest and let her know that you weren’t interested in that particular thing, whatever it is. It’s just as much your responsibility to make sure your phone sex session goes well as it is hers.  And if she jumps to a conclusion that is wrong, be sure to tell her.

Simple Steps Lead To Great Phone Sex!

These five rules should ensure that you have a great phone sex experience. A phone sex artist is a professional and if she’s great at her job, you’ll be so happy you’ll want to call her back, maybe even get into a regular schedule with her. Be sure to let her know at the end of the call that you enjoyed it. And also whether or not you would like to call her again. If you know you would love to talk to her again, ask her what hours she is normally available. This way you can avoid being disappointed if she’s not there the next time you want a good ear fucking.

I hope this article was informative and helpful for you and your phone sex artist. Remember, keep the phone and keyboard clean after each use and happy Phone Fucking!

Submitted by Mistress Tia 

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