Getting the most out of your phone sex call

Are you thinking about calling a phone sex service for the first time? Or have you called a service before and didn’t really get what you wanted from it but aren’t ready to throw in the towel just yet?

Or maybe you’ve been a regular phone sex caller for a long time now, but you’ve been having some thoughts about new and exciting fantasies or fetishes to explore but you’re just not sure how to bring it up. If you just keep a few things in mind when you call your phone sex artist, the call can be exciting and rewarding for not only yourself but your Mistress as well. Keep reading for our best phone sex advice.

For Great Phone Sex, Communication is the Key

First and foremost, remember that your Phone Sex Mistress is not a mind reader. While she may be (and should be) good at taking some cues from you and running with it into a great phone sex fantasy call or role play, she cannot read your mind if you don’t give her those cues to work with. If you can’t come right out and tell her what you want because you’re just too embarrassed or you’re not really sure how to explain it, at least give her a few clues as to what kind of call you are interested in.

A good phone sex artist will expand on the little bit of information you give her and see if she can help you express what it is that you’re wanting to get into. She can help you explore the fantasies that reside in the deepest recesses of your mind, fantasies that you may have not even brought forth into your consciousness yet. She can make you think of doing things that you may never have thought you would do before. Which brings us to our next phone sex advice point…

What if I don’t know exactly what I want from a phone sex call?

This is a common issue that happens with many callers who are new to phone sex, or maybe they’re just not very good at expressing themselves. You know you’re horny, you know you want to stroke your cock or dress up in girly clothes or be coerced to suck a cock, but what else? What happens after that? While you may be thinking… “Isn’t that her job?”, the fact is that if you don’t know what you want, she may have a hard time figuring it out too.

With a bit of help from you, your phone sex artist should be able to expand on your simple kinky ideas and create something magical and mind-blowing. If you can give your phone sex artist the general idea of what you want in your call, then she can help you dive deeper into your fetish or fantasy and explore places you may never have thought of before, but find extremely erotic and stimulating. Of course, the more information you can give your phone sex artist, the better… but if you can at least muster up the courage to tell her the bare basics, then you are on the right track.

What if my phone sex artist isn’t giving me the fantasy that I want?

Not to try and pass the blame off on you, but are you sure that the problem lies with your phone sex artist? It could be that you just haven’t been as clear as you should be when telling her what you want. If you aren’t very clear about what you want, you just might end up with something off track from what you intended.

For example, if you call a phone sex artist and are wanting a coerced cocksucking fantasy, and all you tell her when she asks what you’d like to do is “I like blowjobs”, you may likely find your phone sex artist beginning to weave you a fantasy where she is the one giving you a blowjob. After all, you didn’t exactly say how you liked blowjobs.

See why it’s important to be a little specific about your desires? The more you let your phone sex artist know the specifics of your fantasy then the more she can help you fulfill them.

If you feel that you have been as clear as you can be about your expectations for the phone sex session and you still aren’t feeling that you’re getting what you want, then it could be that your phone sex artist just isn’t the right match for you.

Maybe you just don’t ‘click’. There is nothing wrong with not feeling like you connect with someone… not every phone sex artist is the best for every type of call or fetish. Many artists specialize in certain fetishes or types of calls, and some are just good at anything that ends up in their lap, so to speak.

Perhaps you just need to do a little more reading of the artist profiles to find one that seems to fit your fetish or fantasy, or ask which artist would be best for the type of call you are wanting. Look for those phone sex artists who seem to enjoy talking about the same things you are interested in, and you just might find the girl of your fantasies waiting for you on the other end of that line. And of course, never be afraid to take advantage of our Quality Guarantee, end your call and ask to be connected with someone else!

I’m embarrassed to admit what I want to talk about… my fantasy is really
weird and kinky!

Don’t worry… I assure you, whatever you think is so strange and unusual, your phone sex artist can probably top it and tell you stories of calls that were much kinkier than yours is. You may think your fantasy or sexual fetish is something so outlandish that your phone sex artist will hang up the phone, screaming in horror and disbelief over your perverted, sick mind.  But believe me, when it comes to kinky fetishes, phone sex artists have heard it all.

In fact, some of the callers I have had that were so worried about their fantasy being ‘weird’, were actually some of the most ‘vanilla’ callers I’ve ever had. But that doesn’t mean your phone sex artist is going to be bored with you, not at all. It simply means that she is well prepared to handle the type of phone sex call that you are wanting to do with her, and she should be able to bring your fantasy or fetish to life, for one of the most exciting, rewarding, and fulfilling sexual experiences you’ve ever had.

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